Heather's 30th
My sweet Aunt JeNee sent me a request to participate in a book she was making for Heather's birthday and I was honored to be included. Wanted to save these memories for myself too!
Oh happiest Happy Birthday to my favorite girl!
I am
tearing up thinking about not being with you on your birthday- the very
best day of the year. How I wish I could be there to hug you and tell
you what a selfless, lovely person you are and all the good you have
created in my life and in all the world around you! But first- the
memories. Some of my favorites include- when I came to visit you for
Nate and Kristen's homecoming (maybe your Dad's 40th birthday?) and
watching Kristen paint her toenails and get ready for her big dance and
going to the game with you and feeling so cool. When you came to Texas
and we did a funny photo shoot in capri overalls and old dance costumes
and went to six flags where you pretended you were sick. Playing
"office" or "mailbox" of some sort at Grandma Hutch's house and always
trying to come up with ways to get Jessie to read her scriptures. During
one family reunion we went camping up AF canyon for a night and I
remember you had a chart to read the book of mormon every single day for
a year and you didn't bring any scriptures so you recited a memorized
verse to count it and I was so impressed/amazed. Also being terrified of
Mandi's and Holly's ghost stories.The time we tried to mow Grandma and
Grandpa's front yard in celebration for the Jazz being in the playoffs
and it was so hard so we just ended up with "UT" and then had to go back
and finish it later. hahahahaha. I remember making you hand stamped
stationary so we could be pan pals and writing letters back and forth to
each other. Then high school when we finally got cell phones and got to
text each other- the time I was texting you that I was going to break
up with my boyfriend and sent it to him instead. Coming to visit for
Kristen and Tyler's wedding and hating your horrible pink dress together
but thinking Kristen was the most magical beautiful thing in the whole
world. Driving around listening to all-american rejects and yellowcard.
Laughing about your stories of Ellis backfiring in your high school
parking lot and how you taught me to always set the cruise control at 9
over the speed limit. You coming for homecoming senior year and always
wondering if you and Ben would end up together. You coming out for
Zander's graduation party slash mostly because it was my junior year
form hell and I had no friends and my parents felt bad. Your dream to go
to Venice and my convincing my parents to get a trip going for what
would be the most epic European adventure ever. Everything about those
three weeks, the people in Turkey selling us hats because 3 people died
here yesterday and eating so much food we didn't fit in our clothes by
the time we got to London and you doing a cartwheel and ripping your
pants. Coming to visit during the fall of your Freshman year of college
and going to your singles ward feeling so old and your roommate Lindsey
making out in the car and telling us about her role plays. You coming on
a cruise with us for spring break that year. Being heartbroken that you
were sick and had to move home and left me all alone in Provo the next
year and coming down to visit you over Martin Luther King weekend. Going
to Mexico and reading Twilight books in the hammocks. When I was living
at Liberty square and you left an article on my doorstep by some
emeritus seventy about how its a good thing to wait for a missionary and
holding on to that for dear life. The date we went on where we played
games, cant remember our dates names but I know mine was shallow and
wearing bedazzled jeans and you told him i didn't like him and it was
true! Moving in together at King Henry and so so so so so many
conversations about how God wasn't going to make me marry Jordan and it
was okay to date Evan. The trip to St. George and our moms telling us we
should date Chad and Ben. HA! Everything about the blue rose, the date
uniform, the smell of hair color, leaving the cheese out on the counter,
every article of clothing I owned on top of my bed, you falling asleep
to Gilmore Girls every night, hating you when you went over to the
Jukebox without telling me. "Maid of Honor" dates and being so annoyed
at how happy you were the day I thought Evan was ignoring me, turns out
he was proposing. The fight about the bridesmaid fabric (praise heaven
you refused to wear it, I can't even imagine the pictures!). Your
perfect perfect toast at my wedding. The time you came over to our first
apartment and spread out hundreds of photos your aunt had accidentally
printed from my old camera card of me and Jordan. Countless Sunday
dinners and lessons from Grandpa, especially when you got in trouble for
being "too loud". Every Celine Dion song I ever hear- all remind me of
you. Turbo Jamming with Chalene. Midnight Twilight movies on your
birthday. Every frozen yogurt date we ever had where we chatted about
how people are idiots and the gospel is the only thing that matters.
Playing tennis together so I could keep up with things while you dated
Jay. Haircuts times a million. But mostly always knowing you were the
one I could go to when I had something important to say, knowing you
would agree with my opinions on current events and politics. You are so
loyal and so devoted to the people you love. You are so fun and bright,
it's just joyful to be around you. Your commitment to the Lord is
obvious but in the most graceful way. You are truly a gift in my life
and I know so many more people feel the same way! I am so grateful to
have gotten to share the first 30 years (well I guess only 29) of your
life with you and am forever thankful we are family so we can continue
to make memories! Thanks for being my best friend, my "big sister" when I
didn't have one, and an inspiring example. I love you fiercely! Have
the greatest day!!
Kam
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